tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post8234810069979091599..comments2023-10-08T06:26:22.121-07:00Comments on Liquid Mind, Sanguine Soul: Deal With ItCiCihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02466038341689494316noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-46722112972225245192012-12-24T11:10:56.991-08:002012-12-24T11:10:56.991-08:00Maybe she needs to be shown the "Community Ro...Maybe she needs to be shown the "Community Room," assuming your building has one. Good luck with this! :)Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-74537462733841761592012-11-25T16:16:18.735-08:002012-11-25T16:16:18.735-08:00You have a healthy approach to an annoying situati...You have a healthy approach to an annoying situation. Too many people see a person with bad habits and write them off instead of realizing there may be a reason for the bad behavior. It's good that you know your own boundaries, though, even while willing to give her some leeway.terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12510457113017189354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-25688016515132552212012-11-21T21:00:48.307-08:002012-11-21T21:00:48.307-08:00I yiyi... That's a tough one, CiCi. I am so ...I yiyi... That's a tough one, CiCi. I am so sorry. The noise and pestering would drive me crazy. <br /><br />You are a good soul and very kind. I'm not sure how I would handle this other than to try to be respectful and move past as quickly as possible.<br /><br />xoxox jjJoanna Jenkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10836376588710862173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-85274320620371684222012-11-20T01:02:12.579-08:002012-11-20T01:02:12.579-08:00CiCi I had not realized that you had moved. I thin...CiCi I had not realized that you had moved. I think I would have to say something....but what I don't know. I hope it all works out for you. It is nice you have more money to spare though. sounds like your keeping yourself busy,...hugs.Cindy https://www.blogger.com/profile/03552572705763406197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-6770889221560974772012-11-18T08:30:33.318-08:002012-11-18T08:30:33.318-08:00smiles...stay sane...its the bane and blessing of ...smiles...stay sane...its the bane and blessing of communal living....i think it important to set the boundaries but also allow that she is someone just like you as well...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-29908006682943534552012-11-17T17:57:28.889-08:002012-11-17T17:57:28.889-08:00I totally feel you on this. She is lonely and need...I totally feel you on this. She is lonely and needy, but that does not mean you need to keep her company or fulfill her needs. Obviously, you already know that. It's awful to say, but some people really do suck the life out of you and are not worth the effort. They will take and take and take. It's unfortunate that some people do not appreciate time alone and in their loneliness, they end up pushing others away. <br />Claudya Martinezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17034216831504207496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-61329446632911397362012-11-17T11:12:50.565-08:002012-11-17T11:12:50.565-08:00Sounds really annoying. Really. I agree with the...Sounds really annoying. Really. I agree with the others who say that you should say something - either to her or to the management. But I love your empathy!Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05853360875281742784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-24678448482924758392012-11-16T14:00:50.031-08:002012-11-16T14:00:50.031-08:00I like the suggestion of speaking with management....I like the suggestion of speaking with management. Perhaps there could be a rule about front doors must be closed if nobody is walking through them at the moment.. ;)Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12787493532006658679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-64870245853011045882012-11-16T10:32:47.160-08:002012-11-16T10:32:47.160-08:00The only problem I've had with a neighbor was ...The only problem I've had with a neighbor was one old woman who thought her grandson walked on water. Whenever I saw her she managed to get her grandson into the conversation within three seconds. That poor kid!stephen Hayeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17659054447637207734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-81940367829974350892012-11-16T06:25:36.121-08:002012-11-16T06:25:36.121-08:00I think DJan's suggestion is a very good one. ...I think DJan's suggestion is a very good one. A request coming from the manager would be better than a complaint from you. It is sad that she seems so lonely, but you are smart to know that you are not the answer to her loneliness.Jeaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04810126999695733332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-39782170130497103832012-11-16T05:39:29.892-08:002012-11-16T05:39:29.892-08:00You are right not to befriend her. You would have ...You are right not to befriend her. You would have no peace at all. I would talk to the manager. She must be bothering other people, too, and having it come from someone other than a fellow neighbor would carry more weight. We have to deal with our neighbors, too, and sometimes it can be very stressful.DJanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07152183871573797791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-40290848607498759692012-11-16T04:47:37.959-08:002012-11-16T04:47:37.959-08:00I would have to say something, to be honest. That...I would have to say something, to be honest. That sort of thing can really get to you...Rock Chefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11259561583833857901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-38188440079482730262012-11-16T01:56:18.309-08:002012-11-16T01:56:18.309-08:00I agree with LL. I'm afraid I would HAVE to s...I agree with LL. I'm afraid I would HAVE to say something, I know it would drive me nuts to be forced to endure something like that. Is there a noise ordinance?<br /><br />Good luck!Ms. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06263882972749791087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1296769989261398998.post-14818964820407789932012-11-16T01:29:44.120-08:002012-11-16T01:29:44.120-08:00Neighbours can completely spoil a perfect home. I&...Neighbours can completely spoil a perfect home. I've experienced it more than once. Couldn't you ask her to close her door because the noise from her tv is disturbing you?LL Cool Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13916666100971008775noreply@blogger.com